Hi my name is Sharoe I’m highly addicted to people who are confident, positive, are loyal, good at remembering stuff, supportive, organized and have a good sense of humor.
There’s this perceived obsession that women seem more drawn to lofty guys. For the record, I’m 5’8″, so am pretty tall, and as a general rule, it’s hard to date a guy shorter than me (same height is negotiable). It’s a preference, not a requirement. And I’m willing to break that preference for Zac Efron or Jon Snow/Kit Harrington.
You can change your waistline, dye your hair or get colored contact lenses…but science hasn’t discovered a way to grow and already grown adult. Short men shouldn’t get too stressed out though, time to start reaching for the Cuban heels is yet to come because height doesn’t necessarily mean might. Yes, some people make judgements based solely on physical criteria, but they’re on the extreme side of the bell curve.
The art of evoking interest in or liking for someone or something spans far more than sexual, physical or romantic. Tall dark and handsome isn’t the be-all and end-all. Your charm, personality and attitude can win people over in business, on dates and when forming friendships. Still, everyone has a personal preference. And there will be something about all of us that someone else isn’t down for
SIDE RANT. When I was younger, tall dark and handsome was a phrase used to describe a guy that falls into the hottie, cuttie, eye candy category. TDHs (as they’re sometimes referred to) has now expounded to accommodate an array of meanings (Has it? Or am I growing wiser?). The dark also stands for mysterious with a hint of danger and handsome can be attributed to a man whose hands have got something to offer. I mean, hand – some. Get it? END OF RANT
Imagine having someone you can call in the middle of the night when shit gets real. A person who believes in themselves and their value. Is philanthropic. Shows a strong desire to succeed. Plans his/her activities efficiently. Provides encouragement or emotional help. That guy who always bears in mind every little thing and amuses you 99.9% of the time. Wouldn’t the world just be the best place if you encountered these guys at ever corner we turned to? And instead of waiting for them to appear, how about we try and be them.